Cheryl,
You can work with the paint or with light for your background. The larger the background and the further you can keep the subject from it, will make it easier to control the light falling on the background. A simple paper "sweep" with some background stands holding up the paper is the easiest way to go, if you're doing a few at a time. On my site, in the photoshop section, I show you how to make cheap "stands".
And as far as the windows in your dining room, the easiest thing is to get an old white sheet and tape it to the window, to diffuse the harsh light. When I shot buildings, we had rolls of this diffusion and the assistants would tape the windows,which would help with the dynamic range of the shot, inside vs. outside light.
Patricia, I held this my self and I looked like a one armed wallpaper hanger, trying to hold the stuff over the plant AND try and take a photo. The bestest thing, is to take, say the white garbage bag material, single layer and make some sort of frame, for a coat hanger, if using this for small shots. But just for some knowledge visit B&H's web site and see the different diffusers that you can just buy and I would probably buy stuff from amazon and not pay the high prices of B&H, which is all geared for professionals,
Rich