My grandparents immigrated to America when they were teenagers. Their families left behind perished in the holocaust. My mom was the youngest in the family and married my Dad when she was 18 when he was on a furlough from WWII. After the war, my grandfather brought my Dad into his small junk business that he continued to work until he retired.
My parents continued to live with my grandparents until they died, some 38 years later. We were a multi-generational family. I was given every kind of lesson they could afford in the arts. It was a European attitude to make sure daughters were so exposed. I had lessons in music (singing, piano, writing music, conducting music), visual arts, drama and 12 years of dance.
When it was time for college, I went to an affordable state affiliated university and earned a complete scholarship for my graduate school year. My parents let me move back home until I could save money up for a car and an apartment.
We lived modestly but NOT getting a higher education was never an option. Being lazy wasn't either.