I always keep a short length (about a foot) of nylon rope in my camera bags. If you loop it around a stuck filter, tightly twist the free ends, then use the twisted part as a handle and rotate, you can easily remove the filter. Never fails!
Don't use tools! They can really mess up filters and lenses. When you apply pressure to a wrench (or tightly squeeze the filter with your hand), you can actually egg the filter frame, tightening it more. The idea is to provide even pressure around the filter frame, which is what the rope does. If you carry a rope monopod, you already have what you need.
I discovered this method while shooting an old rowboat and needed to remove my polarizer, which was stuck. The boat had some old rope attached to it. Voila!