I can help out a little with this Facebook stuff if you like.
To be able to appear on someones fan page, you must act as your page before you LIKE another page.
Go to your fan page and make sure you have scrolled all the way up, so you can see the following tabs:
Admin Panel - Edit Page - Build Audience - Help & Hide.
Go to: EDIT PAGE. At the bottom of the menu you will see: Use Facebook as..... and then the name of your fan page.
Click on this, and then go to the pages you want to connect to your fan page and LIKE them.
Remember, when you are finished to go back to EDIT PAGE and switch back to yourself.
... :o)